When it comes to her ...

When it comes to her life

9/15/2016
5:47 PM

Every girl is unique. There is a beauty in the creation of a woman. From childhood to old age she will be the center of life for so many people. But when it comes her life , she is only a girl ,only a woman born to carry the burdens of the world just because she is a woman. We are so blind sometimes not to see the tears in her smiles. We never actually know the true feeling of a women.
No its just that nobody ever wanted to.

A woman is a living being born to obey and nod for everything the society says. Most of the times we see her dying inside to not to do things that suffocate her, that hurts her and her feelings and that is not something she likes.

Every girl has dream to be on her own , to do things on her way and style but she never get a chance to nor do the society gives one. Even then , when some one comes forward and do things her way she gets branded and later subjected to be a disgrace to her family. How horrendous !

Women and freedom. Do they have or do not ? Yes they do but sometimes they are denied and that is something very devastating and cruel.

Who doesn't love to travel . Every girl as a secret wish to see the world around and try so many adventures in her life alone or with someone she loves. But most of the time it is not possible in a stereotypical society for her to do that(financial crisis is another factor). For a woman to travel on her own around is the wish of a bad girl not for the good kinds because good women stay home and do slave job . That's what the society would say because society has nothing else to do but sit and see what other people do and criticize them spreading rumors.

When it comes to fashion , it is another impediment in her life. There are girls who wishes to dress their way they like and equally traditional too. But again society divides them. Good and bad. Is that even fair. Dressing up according to the situation and their will is right and again branding them as total gone girl is not. Because we dress up in shorts and skirts and jean and have cool hairstyles doesn't mean we are bad as hell. It is just that we are some upgraded versions of cool people 😉 Being bold matters well dressings and the way we carry ourselves has a huge part in them I strongly believe.. Tom boy types specially are like a cursed species who actually are all strong and bold inside.

People can be so narrow minded and they are all the time. Traveling , making her own decisions , going for a job and dressing up in her way doesn't mean that they are flirts and bad and never listen to their parents. Well that's something really rude to say. For some people they call it crime for girls to be own their own so that some don't even like a girl child being born because of all the risks and stages they think they gotta undergo.

Why is women always considered merely as a sex object and always abused. So there we see it is again the problem of the society. If a girl is given respect and her freedom will men be seeing her that way. Wearing shorts and skirts are not to indicate men that they are available. Forget  modern dressing, will she be left alone from eve teasing even if she is wearing parda. Clearly no. This proves problem is not with the dressing. It is the fault of the men that they don't consider the women with respect but see her in the same eye as they see the unnecessary video clips. We should actually knock the head of people who use internet as a medium to harass women chatting with them and abuse again . Not all but the society is not only very narrow minded but perverted.

Let it all change. Let her be free. Let her chase her freedoms. Lets not make comments on her. Let her fly. This is her life who are we to reign and hold her tight and wrong .
This is the time where the women rules. There are lots of countries now in the power of a woman. The world of literature under the pens of women . Huge number of stars and singers all women. The imf controlled under a woman. Celebrities with higher income ranking first are women. Like wise every sector is now touched by women. Lets not just subject them to maids and objects lets give them what they deserve.

We don't want a feminist world we want a place where we are not caged anymore.